A B happy guide for the bitter Xs
With the increase of median age of first marriages (in Australia recent figure is 26.7) chances are you have more Xs than previous generation.
Maybe you fighted a lot till you got sick of it, maybe you were betrayed, and so on so on.. 1001 reasons that you broke up with your Xs. Without knowing it you might still hold ‘grudge’ against your Xs.
Some signs that you need this B happy guide are:
- You still subconciously have a big ’sigh’ when come across with the memories of your Xs.
- Your heart pumps harder when someone mentioned his/her name.
- Whenever you have chance, you want to bad mouth him/her in front of your old and new buddies (whom so sick of listening it over and over again).
- You avoid coming to reunion if your Xs will be there.
How to:
Easy mate!.. Just SNAP out of it everything you start any of those sign, and think of these:
You weren’t made for each other! Even if she/him didn’t start that big fight that night, there would be a different way for you to break up.
Everyone makes mistakes including yourself! Forgive and forget. Your Xs probably regrets it deeper than your grudge! You probably still have regret for doing this and that to Xs.
Be happy! If you have a happy life, you would have no time to waste energy on bad mouthing your past.
Wish for his/her happiness! How can you stay positive if you have bad wish for someone else’s life?
If it’s true that you claim that once you loved him/her it should be easy for you to do so?!!
And this is the least and last thing you can do in this life for them.
Finally:
Say this to yourself,
"I am sooooo happy with my life now,
I’m so much in love with my partner now (If you have one)
I will meet my soulmate soon or later (If you are single)
I forgive and forget whatever she/he did that broke my heart.
I regret and forget whatever I did that break her/his heart.
I wish him/her Well!"
